Monday, October 28, 2013

Misuse of Phone Messenger

Misuse of Phone Messenger

There was another topic of social networking for today. My classmates demonstrated some funny sketches to us. There was about the misuse of social networking phone application that lead to increment of prostitution, robbing and other social issues.

The invention of smartphone had brought a huge change to the way we communicate. Excessive usage of social networking cause us to have lesser face to face interaction with people. In addition, it will cause some health problems such as shortsightedness.

Social networking is a very good platform for us to interact with our distance friends and family. Sometimes if  I miss my friends or family. A simple click on the phone will allow me to hear their voice and know of their recent life. I surprised that a small device in my hand can help me to connect deeply with the one that I love.

Social networking is also very helpful in dong business. Those social networking application such as Facebook and Wechat are playing an important role in marketing purpose. The information will be spread very fast by using social networking. People will notice of your product or service instantaneously. It also help to improve the way of communication by showing pictures or comments of product to customers.

In conclusion, we should use the advancement of technology wisely for beneficial but not creating unnecessary social problems. This is to ensure the continue growth of technology will bring greater improvement to human being.

Monday, October 21, 2013

Relationship

Relationship 

Nowadays, love has became a joke? Some of the youngsters find lovers to fulfill their sexual needs or monetary benefits. In addition, they find lover so that they will not feel lonely and there will be always a person to accompany them. 

During the puberty period of youngster, there will be a process of physical change where  a child's body matures into an adult body capable of sexual reproduction to enable fertilization  Their body will produce hormone that makes them have the feel of love. They will fall into love with someone easily but that is not true love, it is only a sudden feeling that would not last long. 

A true love is appreciation. The couple will accept each other faults and tolerate to each other. Both of them have trust and faith that concrete their relationship. They will choose the people that they love and wont regret for their decision. Even when their is a problem exist in one of them, they will face it together and solve the problem together. They have the same goal for the future and they will work together to achieve their dream. 

Even though sometimes they will have argument and quarrel with each other. They will improve themselves after quarreling so that the same mistakes will not happen again. After that their relationship will become closer and closer. I do not agree that violence should not happen during quarreling. This will not help to improve a relationship but it will ruin it. 


Recently I lost someone who is important in my life, she used to love me so much. But I do not learn how to appreciate her. Finally she left and fortunately we are still able to become friend again. I hope that she can find her own happiness. Although I am not willing to let her go, but I have to because she has her rights and her choices. I hope the guy that stay beside her will love and dote her. I wish you all the best in future and feel thankful to have you as my friend. 



Sunday, October 20, 2013

Euthanasia

Euthanasia
Recently I heard of euthanasia from my classmates in the class, they have briefly describe to us the meaning of euthanasia and the different types of it. The term Euthanasia originated from the Greek word for "good death." It is a way to end a person life by injection or termination of medical treatment. The types of euthanasia are voluntary euthanasia, involuntary euthanasia, and active euthanasia. 

In my opinion, the most acceptable way to end a person’s life is voluntary euthanasia where a competent person makes a voluntary request to be helped to die. Normally the request is made by a person in a vegetative or coma state. The purpose of making this decision is because they do not want to be the burden of their lovely friends and family. They want them to have more freedom and happiness instead of staying in hospital to take care of them always. Furthermore, the financial burden of taking care of patient will be reduced.

On the other hand, I think that if a patient still has the chance to recover from their sickness. We should give them the right to fight for their life instead of ending their breath arbitrarily. This would make a miracle if they success in their battle against sickness and it will be a new start for the person. But if finally the patient unable to secure his life, it will not feel regret of his decision because he has make the greatest effort to survive. I will have such thinking because I was inspired by my relative.

One of my relatives was suffering from breast cancer. She was trying to heal it by consuming different types of medicine but unfortunately her effort was fruitless. Finally she decide to do Chemotherapy, she lost her beauty and health during the treatment. She strived hard to survive for her family and herself. But unfortunately she passed away two years ago after few years of treatment.


As a conclusion, I think that a person should not end his or her life easily without making any effort to secure his life. 

Monday, October 7, 2013

Elder child in the family

Journal 1

Elder child in the family

   As the eldest child in the family, I am the person who always need to experience the new things in the house either is a good thing or bad thing. There is no brother or sister that I can ask for opinions. Sometimes I feel tired because it seems like everything in the house depending on me such as paying electricity bill, doing housework, making complains of those bill to relevant authority. This is because my parents are not so good in their education. So I have to help them to solve those problems. I have to work part time and I need to study. Sometimes I cant find a pathway to dissolve this stress. When bad mood comes to find u, negative thinking will surrounding you and led you to the bad thinking.   I tried hard to make myself happy so that my family and friends will be happy too. I know that only positive thinking can lead me to a brighter way. Luckily I have many friends around me, they always encourage me and help me when I need the most. They are the lighter in my life, my life would not complete without the presence of my friends and family. Sometimes I would do some sports such as badminton or workout to release those stress. 

   My parent always encourage me in different ways for my future benefit . They hope that I can be healthy and happy always. I loved them, but of course they also love my only brother. Everyday they will bring lunch and dinner to his nearby working place unless for some days that they are busy. 

   Appreciation will make me to have more in future, I am the first who drive the new car compare to my brother. Maybe this is the advantages of being eldest, I can try every challenge for the first time and get the first experience. So I can teach my brother and my other youngest friend. But for the sure, learning does not end until the day we death no matter what is the place in family. Things does not go smooth on everyday, but this will not change our thinking unless you allow them. As a human being, we grow for every challenges we face in life no matter in working, study, relationship or others. As long we will not feel regret and the challenge is worthy, we should face these challenges positively.