Sex Education

        Today is the last group presentation from our group which is the topic of sex education. It was an interesting topic that challenged my bottom line of sex topic. I and my group member rehearsed about three and four times so that we managed to present the topic in front of our classmates.

          During the period of rehearsal we have fun together and discuss a lot about sex education. I believed that nowadays Asian parents are too conservative to share their sex knowledge with their child. They should be competent to tell their child of sex education. This is to prevent their child from being too ignorance and naive. They will be cheated easily by their bad friends and led to a negative behavior such as having one night stand with a strangers.

          In our role-play, we demonstrated the scene of watching sex video which is in fact that it is the way of  nowadays children to learn about sex. Their parents did not tell them much about sex and caused them to learn about sex in their own comfortable way. They can teach their children in a non-verbal way such as buying books for them to learn about their body in a more scientific way. They will learn of the internal organs such as vagina, penis, and the term of sex intercourse.

         Besides that, nowadays parent should tell their child to use protection when having sex. This is to prevent their daughter to get pregnant easily. They will feel regret if they cannot take the responsibility because bearing a child is not easy.  They can use condom or birth control pill to prevent them from get pregnancy.

         In addition, I can accept a girl that losses her virginity to become my wife. She must be a loyal person and not like those playful girl that having sex easily with other guy. This is because I scare to get HIV or AIDS and I still want to enjoy my life for longer period. However, girls should try to preserve her virginity and save it for the guy that worth of it.

How man suceed with woman

                Today there is an interesting topic in class. My friends describe to us of how man succeed with woman. There are a lot of people in this world that we can see everyday, but what makes two person to meet and start to attract each other. They fall in love deeply and finally argument comes in. During the argument stage, it is an important stage because if the couple can tolerate each other and accept each other fault. Then they can stay together happily.

             First impression is very important to give a good image to attract people. After that, people will start to understand further and know more of the man or woman. A man have to be honest of his feeling to the girl in order to have a deep connection with her. He no need try to impress her by doing some extraordinary things. All the man need to do is live fully present in the moment and have a light and playful conversation with the women.

           There are many things that we need to consider after being a couple. They need to have a mutual goal in order to achieve the same target. They learn together and understand more of each other. However, if their goal  have a big different with each other. It is hard for them to maintain the relationship because their attitude is differ significantly and it is hard to communicate together,

           There is another mistake thinking that some people always make, they thought that if a girl is not going out with her means she do not like him. But in fact that the girl has personal thing to do, the guy should not take the rejection personally and feel sad.

            As a conclusion. true love does not come easily and we need to strive in order to achieve our happiness. I hope that people that found their true love will appreciate them greatly. Appreciation never to be too late and should be done as earlier as possible.


         

Differences between guys and girls in relationship

  Yesterday was a tiring day for me, I felt very tired when I went into the auditorium room. Drowsiness caused me cannot concentrate in the class.
   
     However, when my course mates start to present their hard work to the lecturer. I felt impressed by they slide shows. They put a lot of effort to do their slide shows and by rehearsing of their sketch.

     Finally, there was a interesting topic that I agreed with it. The differences between guys and girls in a relationship. Girls tend to talk more than guys in a relationship because of the way their solving problems. They like to communicate and  and solve problems by discussion. On the other hand, guys like to solve problems by thinking alone. The way that guys solve problems is like hiding in a cave to think independently. Girls like to communicate more to find out a solution. It doesn't mean that guys do not solve problems by talking. But they are more tend to think independently compare to girls.

There is one thing that I found out that girl is more jealousy than guys. Girls will be more curious and care of guys’ action. But I thing that it depends on what type of girls, some girls are very generous by allowing their boyfriends to go out with their ex-girlfriends. I doubted that whether the girl is pretending generous or they are really do not care of it. However, there is a possibility that their trust is concrete and meeting the ex-girlfriends is to do other important things.

It was a fabulous day for me. I can see that different people have different requirements and opinions of love.  They are facing different situation in love so they have to react differently. The thinking way of girls and guys caused them to behave differently whether in working or in relationship. However, I felt that they should not stand in their position strictly. Both should try to understand their behaviors’ and tolerate with each other. Although say is easier than action but nothing comes easily unless we fight for it. I am still young and there is many things that I have to learn and try in life.  

  

Cyber Bullying

    In this world, there are many kind of people living around us. Some of them like to live peacefully and stay happy with others.Some of them like to be jealousy and criticize of the others. Both of them also trying to find happiness through their action but seems that some of them were using wrong methods.

        Cyber bullying is one of the example of wrong methods. They do not realize that a single word or sentence from them will hurt the victims much. The person who listened of their bullying words will feel that they are worthless. They feel that life is meaningless because of the negative comments that were given by those bad people.

        Sometimes I think that those people do not feel that what the victims felt. They should stand in the shoes of those people that they hurt in order for them to understand their feeling. It is useless to protect the victims by preventing them to use the social networking application such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and others. This is because they will find another way to surf internet such as going to cybercafe or  using outside's WiFi's service.

     Parents should educate their children to be moderate of those comments and try not to be too sensitive of them. Those people that give comments maybe in a bad mood and trying to express their emotion by giving negative comments or opinions accidentally.
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   In conclusion, we should consider the opinion of others and accept it if we judged that they are correct. However, if the comments given by them are non sense. We should ignore it and do whatever that we think is correct, always be confident and trust of ourselves.