The last presentation of 2013

    Today is my last presentation for the year 2013 of my study in Segi College. It was a memorable day for me because I see some of my friends are presenting their own movie or song to the whole class. They are doing well by presenting their work in a creative way such as inviting the guests to participate in activities. Kit Yeng is the one who shows a owl picture that symbolize "music never stop". She is really enjoying her presentation in a playful way, which is what I should learn from her.

       Wai Chun has inspired me to appreciate the moments during our college life. Sometimes I will think of the day of our graduation. I feel happy and anxious at the same time. The reason for me to be happy is that finally I get my degree certificate and be acknowledged by the college. In the other way, I feel anxious because I need to start to face the new challenge in my life. I have to start to work and maybe need to leave my lovely college friends as I will go to Singapore at the next year end.

      I presented the movie that named "The Internship". I choose this movie because I like the character of Owen Wilson and Billy McMahon. They showed the spirit of brotherhood and always support each other no matter in what kind of situation. I admire their way of handling emergency situation and always be ready to help and encourage people. They always tease each other and have the courage to realize their dream. They never give up on their goal and strong enough to stand back to hold on what they believed.  It is really a motivating movie that inspired me a lot.

       Some of my classmates have presented their song and they even sing it in the classroom. Once again I have be astonished by their courage to share their beautiful voice to all of the classmates. They are really amazing and make my college life to become more and more interesting. In the next week, there will be another group of students going to present their masterpiece.Here I would like to wish best of luck to them!

Sex Education

        Today is the last group presentation from our group which is the topic of sex education. It was an interesting topic that challenged my bottom line of sex topic. I and my group member rehearsed about three and four times so that we managed to present the topic in front of our classmates.

          During the period of rehearsal we have fun together and discuss a lot about sex education. I believed that nowadays Asian parents are too conservative to share their sex knowledge with their child. They should be competent to tell their child of sex education. This is to prevent their child from being too ignorance and naive. They will be cheated easily by their bad friends and led to a negative behavior such as having one night stand with a strangers.

          In our role-play, we demonstrated the scene of watching sex video which is in fact that it is the way of  nowadays children to learn about sex. Their parents did not tell them much about sex and caused them to learn about sex in their own comfortable way. They can teach their children in a non-verbal way such as buying books for them to learn about their body in a more scientific way. They will learn of the internal organs such as vagina, penis, and the term of sex intercourse.

         Besides that, nowadays parent should tell their child to use protection when having sex. This is to prevent their daughter to get pregnant easily. They will feel regret if they cannot take the responsibility because bearing a child is not easy.  They can use condom or birth control pill to prevent them from get pregnancy.

         In addition, I can accept a girl that losses her virginity to become my wife. She must be a loyal person and not like those playful girl that having sex easily with other guy. This is because I scare to get HIV or AIDS and I still want to enjoy my life for longer period. However, girls should try to preserve her virginity and save it for the guy that worth of it.

How man suceed with woman

                Today there is an interesting topic in class. My friends describe to us of how man succeed with woman. There are a lot of people in this world that we can see everyday, but what makes two person to meet and start to attract each other. They fall in love deeply and finally argument comes in. During the argument stage, it is an important stage because if the couple can tolerate each other and accept each other fault. Then they can stay together happily.

             First impression is very important to give a good image to attract people. After that, people will start to understand further and know more of the man or woman. A man have to be honest of his feeling to the girl in order to have a deep connection with her. He no need try to impress her by doing some extraordinary things. All the man need to do is live fully present in the moment and have a light and playful conversation with the women.

           There are many things that we need to consider after being a couple. They need to have a mutual goal in order to achieve the same target. They learn together and understand more of each other. However, if their goal  have a big different with each other. It is hard for them to maintain the relationship because their attitude is differ significantly and it is hard to communicate together,

           There is another mistake thinking that some people always make, they thought that if a girl is not going out with her means she do not like him. But in fact that the girl has personal thing to do, the guy should not take the rejection personally and feel sad.

            As a conclusion. true love does not come easily and we need to strive in order to achieve our happiness. I hope that people that found their true love will appreciate them greatly. Appreciation never to be too late and should be done as earlier as possible.


         

Differences between guys and girls in relationship

  Yesterday was a tiring day for me, I felt very tired when I went into the auditorium room. Drowsiness caused me cannot concentrate in the class.
   
     However, when my course mates start to present their hard work to the lecturer. I felt impressed by they slide shows. They put a lot of effort to do their slide shows and by rehearsing of their sketch.

     Finally, there was a interesting topic that I agreed with it. The differences between guys and girls in a relationship. Girls tend to talk more than guys in a relationship because of the way their solving problems. They like to communicate and  and solve problems by discussion. On the other hand, guys like to solve problems by thinking alone. The way that guys solve problems is like hiding in a cave to think independently. Girls like to communicate more to find out a solution. It doesn't mean that guys do not solve problems by talking. But they are more tend to think independently compare to girls.

There is one thing that I found out that girl is more jealousy than guys. Girls will be more curious and care of guys’ action. But I thing that it depends on what type of girls, some girls are very generous by allowing their boyfriends to go out with their ex-girlfriends. I doubted that whether the girl is pretending generous or they are really do not care of it. However, there is a possibility that their trust is concrete and meeting the ex-girlfriends is to do other important things.

It was a fabulous day for me. I can see that different people have different requirements and opinions of love.  They are facing different situation in love so they have to react differently. The thinking way of girls and guys caused them to behave differently whether in working or in relationship. However, I felt that they should not stand in their position strictly. Both should try to understand their behaviors’ and tolerate with each other. Although say is easier than action but nothing comes easily unless we fight for it. I am still young and there is many things that I have to learn and try in life.  

  

Cyber Bullying

    In this world, there are many kind of people living around us. Some of them like to live peacefully and stay happy with others.Some of them like to be jealousy and criticize of the others. Both of them also trying to find happiness through their action but seems that some of them were using wrong methods.

        Cyber bullying is one of the example of wrong methods. They do not realize that a single word or sentence from them will hurt the victims much. The person who listened of their bullying words will feel that they are worthless. They feel that life is meaningless because of the negative comments that were given by those bad people.

        Sometimes I think that those people do not feel that what the victims felt. They should stand in the shoes of those people that they hurt in order for them to understand their feeling. It is useless to protect the victims by preventing them to use the social networking application such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and others. This is because they will find another way to surf internet such as going to cybercafe or  using outside's WiFi's service.

     Parents should educate their children to be moderate of those comments and try not to be too sensitive of them. Those people that give comments maybe in a bad mood and trying to express their emotion by giving negative comments or opinions accidentally.
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   In conclusion, we should consider the opinion of others and accept it if we judged that they are correct. However, if the comments given by them are non sense. We should ignore it and do whatever that we think is correct, always be confident and trust of ourselves.

Misuse of Phone Messenger

Misuse of Phone Messenger

There was another topic of social networking for today. My classmates demonstrated some funny sketches to us. There was about the misuse of social networking phone application that lead to increment of prostitution, robbing and other social issues.

The invention of smartphone had brought a huge change to the way we communicate. Excessive usage of social networking cause us to have lesser face to face interaction with people. In addition, it will cause some health problems such as shortsightedness.

Social networking is a very good platform for us to interact with our distance friends and family. Sometimes if  I miss my friends or family. A simple click on the phone will allow me to hear their voice and know of their recent life. I surprised that a small device in my hand can help me to connect deeply with the one that I love.

Social networking is also very helpful in dong business. Those social networking application such as Facebook and Wechat are playing an important role in marketing purpose. The information will be spread very fast by using social networking. People will notice of your product or service instantaneously. It also help to improve the way of communication by showing pictures or comments of product to customers.

In conclusion, we should use the advancement of technology wisely for beneficial but not creating unnecessary social problems. This is to ensure the continue growth of technology will bring greater improvement to human being.

Relationship

Relationship 

Nowadays, love has became a joke? Some of the youngsters find lovers to fulfill their sexual needs or monetary benefits. In addition, they find lover so that they will not feel lonely and there will be always a person to accompany them. 

During the puberty period of youngster, there will be a process of physical change where  a child's body matures into an adult body capable of sexual reproduction to enable fertilization  Their body will produce hormone that makes them have the feel of love. They will fall into love with someone easily but that is not true love, it is only a sudden feeling that would not last long. 

A true love is appreciation. The couple will accept each other faults and tolerate to each other. Both of them have trust and faith that concrete their relationship. They will choose the people that they love and wont regret for their decision. Even when their is a problem exist in one of them, they will face it together and solve the problem together. They have the same goal for the future and they will work together to achieve their dream. 

Even though sometimes they will have argument and quarrel with each other. They will improve themselves after quarreling so that the same mistakes will not happen again. After that their relationship will become closer and closer. I do not agree that violence should not happen during quarreling. This will not help to improve a relationship but it will ruin it. 

Recently I lost someone who is important in my life, she used to love me so much. But I do not learn how to appreciate her. Finally she left and fortunately we are still able to become friend again. I hope that she can find her own happiness. Although I am not willing to let her go, but I have to because she has her rights and her choices. I hope the guy that stay beside her will love and dote her. I wish you all the best in future and feel thankful to have you as my friend. 

Euthanasia

Euthanasia

Recently I heard of euthanasia from my classmates in the class, they have briefly describe to us the meaning of euthanasia and the different types of it. The term Euthanasia originated from the Greek word for "good death." It is a way to end a person life by injection or termination of medical treatment. The types of euthanasia are voluntary euthanasia, involuntary euthanasia, and active euthanasia. 

In my opinion, the most acceptable way to end a person’s life is voluntary euthanasia where a competent person makes a voluntary request to be helped to die. Normally the request is made by a person in a vegetative or coma state. The purpose of making this decision is because they do not want to be the burden of their lovely friends and family. They want them to have more freedom and happiness instead of staying in hospital to take care of them always. Furthermore, the financial burden of taking care of patient will be reduced.

On the other hand, I think that if a patient still has the chance to recover from their sickness. We should give them the right to fight for their life instead of ending their breath arbitrarily. This would make a miracle if they success in their battle against sickness and it will be a new start for the person. But if finally the patient unable to secure his life, it will not feel regret of his decision because he has make the greatest effort to survive. I will have such thinking because I was inspired by my relative.

One of my relatives was suffering from breast cancer. She was trying to heal it by consuming different types of medicine but unfortunately her effort was fruitless. Finally she decide to do Chemotherapy, she lost her beauty and health during the treatment. She strived hard to survive for her family and herself. But unfortunately she passed away two years ago after few years of treatment.

As a conclusion, I think that a person should not end his or her life easily without making any effort to secure his life. 

Elder child in the family

Journal 1

Elder child in the family

   As the eldest child in the family, I am the person who always need to experience the new things in the house either is a good thing or bad thing. There is no brother or sister that I can ask for opinions. Sometimes I feel tired because it seems like everything in the house depending on me such as paying electricity bill, doing housework, making complains of those bill to relevant authority. This is because my parents are not so good in their education. So I have to help them to solve those problems. I have to work part time and I need to study. Sometimes I cant find a pathway to dissolve this stress. When bad mood comes to find u, negative thinking will surrounding you and led you to the bad thinking.   I tried hard to make myself happy so that my family and friends will be happy too. I know that only positive thinking can lead me to a brighter way. Luckily I have many friends around me, they always encourage me and help me when I need the most. They are the lighter in my life, my life would not complete without the presence of my friends and family. Sometimes I would do some sports such as badminton or workout to release those stress. 

   My parent always encourage me in different ways for my future benefit . They hope that I can be healthy and happy always. I loved them, but of course they also love my only brother. Everyday they will bring lunch and dinner to his nearby working place unless for some days that they are busy. 

   Appreciation will make me to have more in future, I am the first who drive the new car compare to my brother. Maybe this is the advantages of being eldest, I can try every challenge for the first time and get the first experience. So I can teach my brother and my other youngest friend. But for the sure, learning does not end until the day we death no matter what is the place in family. Things does not go smooth on everyday, but this will not change our thinking unless you allow them. As a human being, we grow for every challenges we face in life no matter in working, study, relationship or others. As long we will not feel regret and the challenge is worthy, we should face these challenges positively.